Memoir
I get a call around 10:00am. The call I have been waiting
for, my nephew is about to be born. I am so excited I jump off my bed and start
to get dressed. Anything for the occasion is fine; I just want to get there. When
I arrive at the hospital I find out I get to be in the room for the birth! This
is something I never thought I would get to do until I actually had children myself.
I’m a little nervous. My brother is there freaking out and by the look on his
face I can tell he is glad I am here. Jenna’s look is full of pain. I drop my
purse on the floor and ask what I can do. Jenna just wants me to rub her back
and push as hard as I can while my brother just watches with panic. I have to
give them both prep speeches about how everything will be okay. Jenna turns
around to look at me and asks how she is going to do this? I have to remind her
that women’s bodies are made for this and that everything will be just fine,
God is watching, Carol is watching and Ricky is watching.
Unfortunately, my family has just lost those two very
important people just weeks before this birth. My uncle lost his battle with a
brain tumor, and my aunt had a tragic fall down iron spiral stairs one rainy
night. This baby is the only good thing we have to look forward to. Everyone
around us just keeps telling us how the baby is going to make everything
better!
At 1:27pm the beautiful
Sean Patrick Cooper was born. Ten fingers ten toes, everything intact. He couldn’t
be more beautiful. My mother and I start taking pictures; we already can’t get
enough of him. My brother gets to hold him first, then Jenna and then my mom.
Finally it’s my turn! I adore him. I hand over my camera to my mom so she can
take a picture of us. As soon as the flash goes off, several nurses and the
doctor enter the room. I snuggle Sean closer to me and try to guess why so many
people just came in the room. I look over to Jenna and she seems fine. Suddenly
a nurse comes over to me and starts to take away Sean “you need to hear this to
honey, let me see him.” I don’t know what this nurse is talking about, what
could I possibly need to hear? I’m not the new mom here. The doctor sits down
on the bed with Jenna and begins. It seems as though the doctors have found
some signs of Down syndrome. His toes are too far apart, his neck is thicker
than normal babies and his pallet in his mouth is too high.
I don’t know what they are talking about he looked fine
to me. They must be lying, this can’t be happening. He is perfect. My head
falls between my hands as well as my brothers. Then I hear Jenna screaming “NO!
Not my baby! Not after everything NO!” I can’t bear to hear her screams. After
everything my family has been through how can God let this happen?
